A Simple and straightforward Guide to Body Language All right, let's talk about body language. Body language before and during your approach specifically. Other than physical touch, body language is probably THE difference that separates the champs from the chumps so it pays well to learn how to improve your body language. And I have some great news for you guys... Going from bad body language to good body language is probably the highest return-on-investment you will ever find when studying seduction!
1) Your mother was right - stand up straight! Slouching is a turn off. There is no simpler way to say this. Be conscious of your posture at all times and make an active effort to sit and stand up straight.
2) "Your hands: First off, stop thinking about your fucking hands. No one cares about your goddamn hands. The more you think about them, the more in your head you're going to be. Keep them down on your sides. That's it. That's all you need to know.
3) Smirk You know the smirk I'm talking about. The one that makes you think, "That guy intrigues me. I wonder what he's thinking about." It's between "too goofy" and "too serious." It screams "doesn't take himself too seriously." It looks relaxed. It has a touch of smugness to it, but not too much. It's that look on your face when you're rocking that new sexy haircut and outfit before you go out, when you catch yourself in the mirror and think, "Oh fuck yeah, I'm looking good." Get to know that smirk well, it is now the face you will showcase to the world when you're out talking to women.
4) Eye contact Eye contact! If there is anything resembling a magic pill, this is it! You MUST get comfortable looking people directly in the eye and not breaking eye contact first. Men who are successful in life do this. They hold eye contact. Look DIRECTLY into her eye and DO NOT LOOK AWAY. It doesn't matter if you're a foot away or across the room from her, HOLD IT. You will feel a rush of energy, nerves, and POWER. Learn to love that feeling, it's the feeling of you becoming a man who is successful with women, kiddo.
Buy it Now 5) Get CLOSE to her, damn it! To quote Rob Judge, "Personal space is for pussies." I already told you that the most successful seducers are those who can't keep their hands off of women. Well you're not gonna be able to do that if you aren't in close! Shake her hand, hold the handshake for just slightly longer than most guys would, and close the gap between you and the girl until you can feel the sexual tension thicken up. This is how you demonstrate intent in your approach. Trust me, if you've got that "I'd fuck me" smirk on your face, standing tall, holding eye contact, right up closer to the girl than most guys, she will KNOW that you desire her and want to get to know her better.
You can literally say anything at this point and you've made a direct approach. Congrats! Speaking of approaching... The Approach A quick pop quiz for you. Which of these are good openers? "
Hi. How's your day going?"
"Excuse me. I just have to say, you are absolutely stunning. I'd be kicking myself if I didn't introduce myself..."
"Oh my god, I love your sense of fashion." "Hey, help me decide which martini to order."
"Where you girls from?
Trick question. They're all awesome because you're a non-needy, sexy man with GOOD BODY LANGUAGE.
Master body language and you'll never have to think of a pickup line again. You can open with pretty much anything. Congrats! But what about approach anxiety? Yes, it's real. Yes, it never goes away. But you've made a decision to get good at this stuff, haven't you? If you haven't, then why the fuck are you reading this? Go jerk off; I hear lonely tears make excellent lube. Otherwise, follow the Action Items in this guide and you'll be well on your way to success.